Dear “Experts”,

It really is NONE of your business what women eat.

Honestly this stuff makes me so cross. Weather we are pregnant or not. How we nurture our bodies, and honour it’s needs, are totally up to us. So you eat for 2, or even 6, when you are pregnant. So what?

Everyone’s bodies respond differently to pregnancy, and some will pile on the pounds even though not eating much more.

From Flight & Fight – To Root & Play.
One of the biggest obstacles in our continued growth as adults is the distractions and routines of day to day life.  Obligations, work, family, bills, social engagements and the need to check your emails to name a few.  You are so busy getting stuff done, perhaps looking after everyone else, you lose touch with your actual needs and desires.

Looking for love implies its lost.  But, its everywhere, all the time.

I would say I am open to meeting someone rather than looking.  I know for some people it is a serious “dating game.  Good for them, if you know what you want and are determined to find it all power to you. 

For me, dating was only ever part of my life, squeezed in amongst my friends and family and work.  I have worked abroad, gone on holidays on my own, and when I go out with my friends I am with my friends, not scanning the room looking for someone who might be looking for me.